Ruben & Angelita
The oceans tried to keep us apart, but love planted us in the same garden
12-09-2026
“And more than all, have love; the only way in which you may be completely joined together.”
Colossians 3:14
Ruben
RUBEN FRANZ GROBECKER
Second son of
Franz Joseph Grobecker (†) and
Janneke Grobecker van Eijsden
&
Angelita
ANGELITA ABRI BERLIANI KY
Second daughter of
Made Kerta Yuda and Sriatun
Holy Matrimony
Saturday, 12 September 2026
1:00 PM WIB - finish
Location:
Gereja Kristen Nazarene Filadelfia (GKNF) Babarsari - Yogyakarta
Jl. Babarsari No.23, Tambak Bayan, Caturtunggal, Kec. Depok, Kabupaten Sleman, Daerah Istimewa Yogyakarta 55281, Indonesia
Wedding Reception
Saturday, 12 September 2026
5:00 PM WIB - finish
Location:
Secret Garden Coffee and Chocolate
Jl. Prof. DR. Ki Amri Yahya No.2, Pakuncen, Wirobrajan, Kota Yogyakarta, Daerah Istimewa Yogyakarta 55253, Indonesia
Dresscode
Bright & cheerful semi-formal • Church-friendly • No flip-flops
Love Story
How We Met
It all began with a follow on Instagram. Who knew it would lead us here, saying ‘I do’ across oceans?
Our First Meeting
After years of knowing each other from afar, Ruben overcame his fear of flying and came to Bali on September 3, 2023. In Ubud, we found more than just a place that feels like home. Meeting in person felt as natural as our countless chats and video calls.
Meeting Ruben's family
Our love story took us to the Netherlands, where Angie met Ruben’s family, danced at his sister’s wedding, and experienced her very first snow in the crisp winter cold. We spent our very first Christmas and New Year as a couple wrapped in that magical season.
Meeting Angie's family
A year later, that adventure continued in Yogyakarta, where Ruben met Angie’s family, joined her sister’s wedding and went on a family trip to Mount Merapi. We explored the streets and places she had called home for years.
The Proposal
A year after meeting for the first time, we stood beneath Merapi volcano. With the earth still trembling from a recent earthquake, Ruben knelt down and made the day one we will never forget.
Wedding Preparations
Ruben came back to Bali in August 2025 and we continue planning our wedding that we had begun over countless video calls. Wearing Balinese traditional attire, we captured our pre-wedding moments and once again stayed in Ubud, the place where it all started.
Live Streaming
For our beloved family and friends who cannot attend in person, we warmly invite you to join us through our live streaming at
Our Gallery
Engagement and Pre-wedding pictures
Our dream is to celebrate this special day with you in Indonesia. We know the journey is far and may take preparation, so we would love to hear from you. If you already know you cannot attend, please let us know. If you are still considering, kindly RSVP by November 12, 2025. Your presence would mean the world to us.
Wedding Gift
Your company is the gift we love the most, but if you’d like, help us build memories (or maybe a home) together.
Wedding Wishes
“Whether you will be with us in person in Indonesia or joining us from afar, thank you for being part of our love story.”
With much love
Ruben & Angie
